I know that sounds selfish. It isn’t really. What I mean by that statement is that my account and who I follow reflect my interests. I enjoy music, politics, the paranormal and health related information so those I follow fall mostly into those categories.  I also enjoy a good laugh so I follow people with great senses of humor who post just plain silliness.

Since I find it easier to keep up with my account by keeping it small rather than add a client to manage it, I don’t follow everyone who follows me. I also don’t demand that anyone return my follow.  I don’t intend to ever get anywhere near that magical 2000 figure where I have to unfollow those who didn’t return the favor in order to follow someone else.  Important to me is who I follow, not the other way around.

When I unfollow someone it’s because I have found that person engaging in what I feel is unethical behavior.  I don’t take someone else’s word for it, I read the tweets in question. If I see accusations without substantiation then I assume that person’s motive is to smear someone else’s reputation.  I know I’m not alone in that due to the number of people who have taken the time to read and find, through other archival sites, the tweets that were deleted. Everything we say online is archived somewhere, including the Library of Congress where they have been archiving all of our tweets for the past year. Including Direct Messages.

I don’t understand some people’s need to smear the reputation of others through false accusations, but I am aware it happens and take steps to insure that I don’t become part of the problem. What others do is their business. What concerns me is what I do. Since my account is all about me, I make sure that I don’t publish something that is intentionally false.

Given the number of ways tweets are being preserved for posterity, I would think people would want those tweets to reflect the positive aspects of their personality. Schoolyard behavior isn’t positive, and if you engage in it, the only reputation you truly damage is your own.

Smear campaigns will get you noticed and the evidence will be there for your children, and your children’s children to read long past the time that you have on this earth. The next time you feel the need to smear someone, maybe you should think about the legacy you’re leaving for future generations to judge you by. You should leave behind something they can be proud of. Learning that Great Grandma or Great Granddad was an internet bully isn’t going to be something I imagine they’ll brag about.

By Butterose

Smart assed step-mother of 3, grandmother of 3. Insane enough to have lived with Hubby for 24 years now. What can I say, I liked his kids? We share our lives with family and our cat.

2 thoughts on “My Twitter Account Is All About Me”
  1. Some day I’ll tell you about what happened to me on my old blogsite. I reported it to the site owner and he blocked the person that did it. I had to close my blog to comments to go through and delete and block both of them and all their other identities. I wasn’t even online when it happened. Logged in the next day and found a mess of really nasty comments aimed at both myself and others who commented on my post. I know what these people feel like, I’ve been there and it’s an uncomfortable situation. You can’t defend yourself since they deny they said anything and delete the tweet. If you continue to argue with that person, a bunch of others will start telling you to stop. They don’t see what’s causing the problem, just your part of it. There is a mess of it happening in Twitter aimed at people I follow. It’s getting so that some of them want to quit Twitter.

  2. Another great article Butterose! And I agree, there’s been several times on different sites where I’ve stepped in to defend someone who was being bullied by someone. If I have a problem with someone I try to do it privately through PM, e-mail, or other non-public means, unless those are not an option.
    Thankfully, in the 7 years I’ve been on the Internet I’ve only had a couple problems…mostly it’s me defending other people from getting attacked. Mind you I do have my moments where I’m opinionated and confrontational 😀 but I try ( try – being the operative word ) to keep it intellectually sound. 😉

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